Lightsabers are great for sexual innuendo
Apr. 26th, 2005 08:24 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
nirix5Okay. Yesterday was great, and then horrible, and then great again. Kinda sorta. Apparently there is a terrace over in Whitney on the third floor. Also, the third floor vending room is WAY BETTER than the one on the second floor.
Joe, Alisha, Quinn, and I went to the mall for shopping stuff (read: Alisha and I went shopping, and they went to the toy store.) Quinn got his coveted lightsaber- and ye gods, I hope I never forget the looks on the salesmen's faces in the suit store when Quinn walked in, waving it around, and asked for a tuxedo. I thought they were going to puke or fall over in apoplectic fits- possibly both.
Then we went to Fayetville to take Joe's suit to his tailor. Yay for aggressive negotiations with traffic to the Mortal Combat soundtrack. After that we wound up over a Shoppingtown, where Kennedy bitched out Quinn. (Obviously, that was the horrible part.) Randomly. *headdesk* Anyway, we stopped by Boom Babies and Seven Rays quick after that, and then Joe drove us home.
When I got home I kind of let loose on my mom about the whole Kennedy thing. Luckily for him, my dad was asleep with a sinus headache, or else I would have given him hell, too. Because the whole thing was kind of ridiculous. He talked to me about it this morning, after I'd calmed down a little bit. He's all, "I'm not trying to drive you away, blah blah blah," and I know he's not. I also know that he didn't intend for Kennedy to do that. However, if he had some kind of problem with Quinn (he doesn't- I think Kennedy is just under a lot of stress lately and it blew out of proportion) he should have come to me about it first.
Whatever. I quasi-told off mom about it last night... It was very "look, this is how it is, get the fuck over it, and get the fuck over yourselves." This isn't the first time that this has happened, and I am fucking sick to death of everyone close to me taking it on themselves to watch my back and threaten my boyfriends with dire harm should they step one inch off the damn line. In case no one on my flist got the memo, I am more than capable of taking care of myself.
Okay. I feel better now.
I took the personality profile from eharmony.com, because Jason2 said it's pretty on the mark. (Plus, I was bored.) I finally finished it.
Overview
Because of your thoughtful nature, you need others to express sincere interest in you or the relationship. This offers the secure feeling that you seek.
Others may see you as disciplined and self-controlled. You have seen the problems of being overly optimistic when planning to depend on others following through.
You may be a matter-of-fact person who may be critical of the shortcomings of others who display a more emotional or outgoing side.
Others showing genuine sincerity and acceptance impress you. You do not like a shallow expression of feelings or thoughtlessness of others. You will get along with most people you meet because you don't cause hostility.
You usually assume a cautious and reserved demeanor when meeting new people. Your relationships must grow naturally and in sincere ways. You will not confide in others readily because of your need for security.
During times of stress or tension, you may withdraw inside yourself and appear as somewhat cool and aloof. You need to be alone when thinking through projects, problems or solutions.
Communication
You attempt to influence others not by showing great emotion, but by appealing to the logical nature of people. Those who are more emotional and excitable may sometimes ignore your approach.
Because of your need to be quiet rather than rambling, you are somewhat introspective about events and activities. You may not communicate readily and rapidly with others, but this does not mean you don't support others.
You may want to base relationships on a nonemotional respect for each other's abilities, and base your level of trust on directness and straightforwardness.
You may be somewhat reticent and retiring when with others, especially in a large group. As others grow louder, you may become quieter. You value control of emotions, and are more reflective than rowdy.
You tend to listen rather than talk. You may place a premium on display of emotions. As a result, "reading" you at times may be difficult.
Some people may inaccurately perceive you as not liking people. You may be misread by others, because you approach social situations with logic and objectivity, judging others by their competence--you may sometimes be misread by others.
You are usually astute in social situations because you take little at face value, will listen carefully and accurately, and will watch others carefully.
Improving Communication (apparently I should look for someone who understands and practices these traits)
~ Respect quiet demeanor.
~ Approach in an honest, sincere manner.
~ Use a thoughtful approach.
~ If you agree, follow through with your end of the agreement.
~ Prepare your "case" in advance--do your homework.
~ Provide time to analyze the data before making a decision.
~ If you disagree, organize your thoughts before confronting your partner.
~ Take your time and proceed slowly.
~ Show patience, especially when drawing out information.
~ Give pros and cons of ideas.
~ Have facts and ideas in a logical order.
~ Use a tone of voice that shows sincerity.
Strengths
~ You tend to be the "Anchor of Reality" in highly emotional situations.
~ You generally take pride in being a strong community member.
~ You tend to set and maintain very high standards for yourself.
~ You are good at "troubleshooting" potential problems in a relationship.
~ You tend to have very high values.
~ You are good at making certain that even small details are taken care of.
~ You are skilled at finding practical solutions to complicated situations.
~ You don't tend to get distracted by superficial issues.
Needs
~ Time to adjust to change.
~ Detailed information about major decisions with complete instructions.
~ Freedom from boredom and routine.
~ A variety of activities.
~ Others to work and play as hard as you do.
~ Security and safety procedures around the house: fire safety, smoke detectors, electronic security systems, etc.
~ Others to "catch up" to your speed of doing things.
~ Recognition for your concern for quality relationships.
~ Many activities, so there is never a dull moment.
~ Reassurance.
~ As much travel as possible: short trips, long trips and excursions.
Joe, Alisha, Quinn, and I went to the mall for shopping stuff (read: Alisha and I went shopping, and they went to the toy store.) Quinn got his coveted lightsaber- and ye gods, I hope I never forget the looks on the salesmen's faces in the suit store when Quinn walked in, waving it around, and asked for a tuxedo. I thought they were going to puke or fall over in apoplectic fits- possibly both.
Then we went to Fayetville to take Joe's suit to his tailor. Yay for aggressive negotiations with traffic to the Mortal Combat soundtrack. After that we wound up over a Shoppingtown, where Kennedy bitched out Quinn. (Obviously, that was the horrible part.) Randomly. *headdesk* Anyway, we stopped by Boom Babies and Seven Rays quick after that, and then Joe drove us home.
When I got home I kind of let loose on my mom about the whole Kennedy thing. Luckily for him, my dad was asleep with a sinus headache, or else I would have given him hell, too. Because the whole thing was kind of ridiculous. He talked to me about it this morning, after I'd calmed down a little bit. He's all, "I'm not trying to drive you away, blah blah blah," and I know he's not. I also know that he didn't intend for Kennedy to do that. However, if he had some kind of problem with Quinn (he doesn't- I think Kennedy is just under a lot of stress lately and it blew out of proportion) he should have come to me about it first.
Whatever. I quasi-told off mom about it last night... It was very "look, this is how it is, get the fuck over it, and get the fuck over yourselves." This isn't the first time that this has happened, and I am fucking sick to death of everyone close to me taking it on themselves to watch my back and threaten my boyfriends with dire harm should they step one inch off the damn line. In case no one on my flist got the memo, I am more than capable of taking care of myself.
Okay. I feel better now.
I took the personality profile from eharmony.com, because Jason2 said it's pretty on the mark. (Plus, I was bored.) I finally finished it.
Overview
Because of your thoughtful nature, you need others to express sincere interest in you or the relationship. This offers the secure feeling that you seek.
Others may see you as disciplined and self-controlled. You have seen the problems of being overly optimistic when planning to depend on others following through.
You may be a matter-of-fact person who may be critical of the shortcomings of others who display a more emotional or outgoing side.
Others showing genuine sincerity and acceptance impress you. You do not like a shallow expression of feelings or thoughtlessness of others. You will get along with most people you meet because you don't cause hostility.
You usually assume a cautious and reserved demeanor when meeting new people. Your relationships must grow naturally and in sincere ways. You will not confide in others readily because of your need for security.
During times of stress or tension, you may withdraw inside yourself and appear as somewhat cool and aloof. You need to be alone when thinking through projects, problems or solutions.
Communication
You attempt to influence others not by showing great emotion, but by appealing to the logical nature of people. Those who are more emotional and excitable may sometimes ignore your approach.
Because of your need to be quiet rather than rambling, you are somewhat introspective about events and activities. You may not communicate readily and rapidly with others, but this does not mean you don't support others.
You may want to base relationships on a nonemotional respect for each other's abilities, and base your level of trust on directness and straightforwardness.
You may be somewhat reticent and retiring when with others, especially in a large group. As others grow louder, you may become quieter. You value control of emotions, and are more reflective than rowdy.
You tend to listen rather than talk. You may place a premium on display of emotions. As a result, "reading" you at times may be difficult.
Some people may inaccurately perceive you as not liking people. You may be misread by others, because you approach social situations with logic and objectivity, judging others by their competence--you may sometimes be misread by others.
You are usually astute in social situations because you take little at face value, will listen carefully and accurately, and will watch others carefully.
Improving Communication (apparently I should look for someone who understands and practices these traits)
~ Respect quiet demeanor.
~ Approach in an honest, sincere manner.
~ Use a thoughtful approach.
~ If you agree, follow through with your end of the agreement.
~ Prepare your "case" in advance--do your homework.
~ Provide time to analyze the data before making a decision.
~ If you disagree, organize your thoughts before confronting your partner.
~ Take your time and proceed slowly.
~ Show patience, especially when drawing out information.
~ Give pros and cons of ideas.
~ Have facts and ideas in a logical order.
~ Use a tone of voice that shows sincerity.
Strengths
~ You tend to be the "Anchor of Reality" in highly emotional situations.
~ You generally take pride in being a strong community member.
~ You tend to set and maintain very high standards for yourself.
~ You are good at "troubleshooting" potential problems in a relationship.
~ You tend to have very high values.
~ You are good at making certain that even small details are taken care of.
~ You are skilled at finding practical solutions to complicated situations.
~ You don't tend to get distracted by superficial issues.
Needs
~ Time to adjust to change.
~ Detailed information about major decisions with complete instructions.
~ Freedom from boredom and routine.
~ A variety of activities.
~ Others to work and play as hard as you do.
~ Security and safety procedures around the house: fire safety, smoke detectors, electronic security systems, etc.
~ Others to "catch up" to your speed of doing things.
~ Recognition for your concern for quality relationships.
~ Many activities, so there is never a dull moment.
~ Reassurance.
~ As much travel as possible: short trips, long trips and excursions.
